Day 30: What I Wrote


I have a smart mouth (apparently).


Day 28: If

If I had said no more often
Grew up in one place
Never went to boarding school
Took isiXhosa instead

If I had carried on with piano,
Kept playing the guitar
Taken Art as a subject
Went to Wits instead of UCT
Became a Medical Scientist and ignored my artistic side

Never moved to East London
Never left when I was there
Never went back to that gig that night
Never wrote that letter to the Herald Editor

If I was “normal”
Aiming only to survive the system
And not change it.
Had tunnel vision
Cruised through life
Never curious
Never wondering.

If I never read
Spent all that time alone…

Would I still be who I am now?

Day 26: Song

My boyfriend once told me that I would make a good A&R person. Because of my ear for music. To which I replied: “I didn’t know they still had A&R people.”

I just wanna write great songs.
If I had a high(er) self-esteem, I would have become a musician. Perhaps a broke one. Or I would get frustrated with the industry and change careers. Who knows anymore?

Day 25: Remember (Christmas)

Remember how around this time last year you moaned about having to make your own vegetarian dishes? And how you woke up early to prepare, taking turns with your Mom in using the oven? And how stressed you were ’cause you kept everybody waiting. And you hoped the food would turn out ok and it did?

Remember this day. Your vegan lentil loaf was a hit.

Allow yourself time to evolve. And allow those around you to do the same.

Day 22: Things People Say

You’ll be fine
I wish I was as bold
So what is it you do?
Where do you buy your clothes?
Oh, but you’re so strong
I can’t place you
Wow, you’re pretty
Who are you friends with? I always see you alone
If I knew where you lived, I would follow you home and rape you
Love your outfit
At least you’re not vegan
Your hard work will pay off
You look like you should be in…
What do you write?
You’re different
I would NEVER do that
What music are you into?
And your parents are ok with the way you dress?
Smile sweetheart, you look angry
Have you ever lived in Europe?
Why do you still buy CDs?
I don’t know who told you it was a good idea to shave your hair, but…
Are you really black?
THAT’S your ex?
I like you

Day 21: Everybody

Everybody should know:
Their purpose in life. If not, then they should define it
That we are not all equal.
And we should stop pretending we are.

We should know to file taxes
And earn multiple incomes
To see the system for what it really is
And try to survive it
Or change it. (And fully accept which ever choice)

That sometimes the cover version (or the remix) is better than the original.
And that’s ok

That the many shades of blackness are all valid and complete

Life can take you down the very path you swore you’d never walk
And you become the very person you once judged.

That you cannot expect decorum from anger.
Much like grief, there is no formula.
No right or wrong. It just is.

That all your friends can be your best friends
And they can have other best friends that aren’t you
And that’s somehow ok.
Somehow it works

Everybody should be enough
As they are
With whatever they have.